Dealing with ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT in DATING!

Dealing with ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT in DATING!

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#90: Why Closure is a Choice, not another Conversation

Endlessly replaying conversations, waiting for a message that never comes, or holding out for the moment the other person finally explains why it ended. We tell ourselves that once we get that explanation, we'll be able to move on. But what if the pursuit of closure is actually w ...  Show more

#89: Fear of Rejection - Why it Ruins Relationships & Makes Dating so Exhausting

Fear of rejection is one of the most powerful (and often invisible) forces shaping how we show up in love.It’s the reason you don’t ask for what you really want.Why you settle for less than you deserve.Why you overthink, overgive, or stay silent when something doesn’t feel right. ...  Show more

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