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Love bombing can feel exactly like the beginning of the relationship you've always wanted.The chemistry is instant. They want to see you all the time. They talk about the future, make you feel special, and everything seems to move at lightning speed. Then, just as quickly, someth ...  Show more

How to Get Over Someone You Still Can't Get Over | Rewind

Some people stay with us long after they're gone.Not because they were the right person, but because we remember how they made us feel.In this episode, I answer a question from a listener who can't seem to let go of someone she met two years ago. Their chemistry felt effortless. ...  Show more

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