S19E13: The Validation Trap

We often get questions like "How do I know if I should go on another date?" "Should I DTR with someone or keep dating other people?" So we are breaking down the complexities of dating, commitment, and how to navigate uncertainty in when to move forward (or not). We discuss the di ...  Show more

We often assume real connection grows out of ease and availability, but what if it's born from inconvenience? In this quickie, Yue shares how a new weekly commute to the Bay Area, and a weekend-only schedule in LA, changed the way she dates and keeps friendships. With limited tim ...  Show more

So many of us were taught how to be chosen instead of how to choose.In this episode, writer, filmmaker, and podcast host Rory Uphold (Crimes of the Heart) joins me to talk about unlearning the dating rules that keep us stuck, why self-trust is the most underrated green flag, and ...  Show more

dating for validation? it couldn’t be us. in this fun episode of Goes Without Saying, we (sephy & wing) break down our 10 vali-dating commandments from our new ebook and explore how we can all date with intention. we’re entering romantic relationships with strat ...

Finding love is hard in the best of times. Throw in a pandemic, hookup culture and societal pressures, and finding a great partner can feel like an overwhelming task. Listen to today's show to learn how to approach this new way of dating in the best way possible. In this episode ...  Show more