How Do I Not Get Discouraged While Single?

We were handed a blueprint for what a “good life” is supposed to look like: fall in love, get married, buy the house, have kids, build a career, and stay together. But what happens when you achieve the life you were supposed to want and realize it doesn’t actually feel like yours ...  Show more

Being in love and loving someone aren’t always the same thing. Being in love can be about chemistry, longing, fantasy, desire, and the way someone makes you feel. But loving someone asks something harder: can you keep seeing who they actually are as they change? Can you stay curi ...  Show more

In this episode, I talk about pressure to be in a relationship. I talk about the cultural stigma around being single and how to NOT allow it to change your opinion of yourself.

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In today's episode we tackle how to be ok single. We discuss common concerns like "feeling like there's something wrong with me", forgiving yourself, and the best next steps you can take if you're working on wanting to feel and be ok single. Sierra discusses your per ...

Do you believe being single is a bad thing? Or that it’s a problem that needs to be resolved as quickly as possible?    I hope your reflexive answer to these questions is “absolutely not!” But, even if you’re not aware of it, you may have echoes of these cultural attitudes boom ...  Show more

On today's solo episode we talk about how to be OK single. If you're someone who has never spent time single the most important thing you can do is to spend time single, and find how liberating and empowering it can be. Being OK single doesn't mean you want to be single forever, ...  Show more