373. Most Habit Change Advice is Wrong - Inco...

How many times have you been doing the work, trying to change, and then completely lost it? You yelled at your kids, said yes when you meant no, or spent money you promised yourself you wouldn't, and thought, "I am failing. This is not working. I should just give up." We’ve all d ...  Show more

Making friends as an adult can feel intimidating, especially when it seems like your upbringing didn't give you the skills to navigate social connections. In this Coaching Hotline episode, I answer two listener questions about friendships and social interactions. I explore why it ...  Show more

If you struggle to make new habits stick, you are not the problem.

You've just been missing the right tools and strategies to make real change happen. 

In this episode, you’re going to learn the simple ways to break bad habits and form new ones.

Mel is reveal ...

Are you tired of letting perfectionism hold you back? In this episode, I dive into how perfectionism is really just fear in disguise and how it's stopping you from taking action, procrastinating, and living the life you deserve. If you're constantly tweaking, editing, or delay ...

Forming new habits involves a complex rewiring process in our brains. But how we approach habit building can hinder or optimize this. If you struggle to make your healthy habits stick, this episode is for you. I'm sharing the most common (yet unconscious) ways we self-sabotage ou ...  Show more

Do you wear perfectionism like a badge of honor?

Maybe you tell yourself that it’s the reason you’re successful—the thing that keeps you disciplined, polished, and ahead of the game. That being meticulous is what sets you apart.

But let’s be real—what has ...