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Have you ever been so angry that you wanted to say something immediately, but you also knew you were probably not in the clearest state of mind? In this episode, I walk you through a real moment from my own life where I was furious, activated, and very tempted to send an angry em ...  Show more

How do you know if you are truly processing an emotion or just stuck thinking about it over and over? This week, I answer a Coaching Hotline question about the difference between allowing a negative emotion and getting caught in a cycle of recreating it. I explain why the questio ...  Show more

If you struggle to make new habits stick, you are not the problem.

You've just been missing the right tools and strategies to make real change happen. 

In this episode, you’re going to learn the simple ways to break bad habits and form new ones.

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Forming new habits involves a complex rewiring process in our brains. But how we approach habit building can hinder or optimize this. If you struggle to make your healthy habits stick, this episode is for you. I'm sharing the most common (yet unconscious) ways we self-sabotage ou ...  Show more

In this episode, you’re about to learn how to make your new habits stick.

If you’ve struggled to be consistent with behavior change, you’re not alone. It’s easy to talk about habits. It’s a whole different thing to apply the science to your life.

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This episode discusses why we struggle to stop negative habits and how to shift them into positive ones.How often have you started a workout program, new project, or endeavor to only fail a few weeks to months after starting? When we try to make a change, our current self wants u ...  Show more