Discover the Shocking SECRET to Creating Self-confidence

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Reactive Abuse Isn't a Defense - It's Your Survival Persona

Reactive abuse is real, and it is also the disempowered survival persona abusing from the victim position. Both partners are using the same control mechanisms from opposite ends of the same codependence spectrum, and that is the truth nobody in narcissistic abuse recovery wants t ...  Show more

They're Not Emotionally Unavailable - They're Emotionally Unprotected

Emotionally unavailable is the wrong word. The man you call distant is not unavailable, he is unprotected. What you have been calling a personality flaw is a survival strategy with a specific childhood origin and a specific dissolution path nobody else is teaching you.If you have ...  Show more

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