Episode 688: Why Your Avoidant Ex Is STILL Thinking About You

Episode 688: Why Your Avoidant Ex Is STILL Th...

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Why Rushing Always Fails With Avoidants

When getting back with an ex, people usually say they're going to "take it slow", but rarely do. Dating expert Lucia explains why pace is the deciding factor, especially with an avoidant ex and why talking doesn't actually move things forward.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: i ...  Show more

Why Being Patient With An Avoidant Backfires

Being patient with an avoidant doesn't save the connection - it often kills attraction.Dating expert Lucia explains why attraction fades when you're waiting, being understanding, and "not putting pressure on it". If you've been trying to stay calm and do the right thing while not ...  Show more

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