The gradual shift from who you were to who you became in the emotionally abusive relationship

The gradual shift from who you were to who yo...

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Ive stopped being abusive, let's have sex

Some emotionally abusive people do heal. And once they do, they might feel the relationship will be great from that point on. What they don't consider is that the victim of their abusive behavior is only starting their healing process. 

Don't gaslight yourself into thinking you're the abuser

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The emotionally abusive relationship is confusing and draining. If you don't get a grip on what's going on, you may start to believe perhaps you are the problem and the ...

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