The Next Conversation Starts Here

Most people say they want to be more direct, but when the moment comes, they start telling stories, overexplaining, or hoping the other person reads their mind. In this episode, I break down what being direct actually sounds like and why customer service conversations are one of ...  Show more

If you struggle to say no, you might not have a boundary problem—you might have an overexplaining problem. In this episode, I break down why giving too many reasons weakens your boundaries, turns your no into a negotiation, and makes it easier for people to push past your limits. ...  Show more

This new season of How To is a collection of our favorite episodes from past seasons—a best-of series focused on slowing down, making space, and finding meaning in our hectic lives. This episode is the last in the collection and is from our fourth season, How to Talk to People. T ...  Show more

We spend a lot of time thinking about how to have conversations with people we care about. After all, these are the relationships that have the biggest influence in our lives. But what if we spent as much time thinking about the conversations we have with strangers? Could there b ...  Show more

Today I am answering a question texted into the podcast phone line about mistyping yourself. As a reminder, you can get your enneagram, self-care, creativity and time management questions answered at 828-338-9127. -- Thank you to this week’s podcast sponsor: BETTERHELP: Our liste ...  Show more

Through my link on social media, I offer one on one calls. Typcially the girls who book are in their 20's and book a call to have an unbiased 3rd party give insight into a dating relationship. I have noticed several similar questions come up more than once so I wanted to unpac ...