the convenience paradox

[video available on spotify] for the last few months my algorithm has been feeding me content about how being offline is the new cool. for years i’ve been talking about the impact of being chronically online. so today i thought we would dig into this cultural conversation about b ...  Show more

[video available on spotify] welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes where you send in your current dilemmas, or anything you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional advice. today's topic is friendship - specifically, situations where it’s unclear ...  Show more

Paradox of Choice. Are There Too Many? Do you have too many choices in your life?  Is it confusing and making you feel distressed? In 2005, Barry Schwartz wrote Paradox of Choice and challenged traditional thinking. He said the way to maximum freedom in your life was to minimize ...  Show more

I'm not gonna lie, this episode is something I needed. Real bad. We don't often hear the voice in our head and what it's saying, and how, if it's negative, is really hurting us. So here's an offering of reframes, adjustments and ways to be softer with yourself. With love, Lexi Ke ...  Show more

In this episode I reflect on the idea of responsibility through the lens of Spider-Man’s famous question, “What if it is my job?” I talk about how we can discern whether something really falls to us or not, how our roles and duties guide those decisions, and why happiness isn’t t ...  Show more

What if the way you view your past is quietly shaping your present in ways you don’t even realize? In this week’s video, I explore a book that has completely shifted how I think about dating and life. It challenges some deeply-held beliefs and the stories we tell ourselves.