Am I Triggered or Am I Right? How to Tell the...

You rearrange your schedule. Keep your weekends open. Make sure there’s time to see them. And somehow you’re STILL sitting there thinking… why don’t I feel like a priority?! 😭 In this episode, we’re talking about what can actually be happening when you feel unimportant or unchos ...  Show more

You know when your partner has told you they love you, shown you they love you, and your anxious attachment is STILL like... okay but can you tell me again? 😭 In this episode, we’re talking about why you crave constant reassurance in your relationship and why trying to force you ...  Show more

In this episode, I bring on one of my best friends and also colleagues sharing the relationship anxiety space to discuss the #1 question we both get asked in this field of work: Is it "just" relationship anxiety or are there legitimate problems in my relationship? We share why th ...  Show more

One of the things I’m most often asked is “How do I know if I’m being unreasonable in my relationship?”. This can be a really tough enquiry to determine for yourself, particularly when you’re getting a lot of pushback and self-trust may be lacking. 

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Do you find that no matter how much you learn about your relationship anxiety, listen to podcasts, read books or try to 'do the work you still feel triggered by your partner? In this episode, my amazing co-coach Sheridan and I discuss how your nervous system affects your thoughts ...  Show more

Sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference between dating anxiety and your needs not being met. If you know your insecurity can lead your thoughts down irrational pathways, how can you figure out if something you’re stressing about is a real concern? For instance, if you ...