Why You Keep Overexplaining (and Still Feel Misunderstood)

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Why Your Overthinking isn’t Changing (no matter how hard you try)

You’ve read the books. Saved the posts. You KNOW you have anxious attachment. So why are you still overthinking everything?! 😭 In this episode, we’re talking about the frustrating gap between knowing your patterns and actually changing them. Because being wildly self-aware doesn ...  Show more

What I Told Myself When My Anxious Attachment Was Triggered (that 100% helped)

In this episode, I’m sharing the 3 things I learned to tell myself when my anxious attachment was triggered that helped me stop turning one tiny vibe shift into an entire relationship spiral. We’re talking about why you can’t out-logic your nervous system, why what feels hysteric ...  Show more

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