How to Cut Out a Toxic Person | Rewind

One of the biggest misconceptions about family estrangement is that people do it lightly. They don't. And for many, the reality is far more painful…The truth is, most people don't create distance because they stopped caring. They do it after years, sometimes decades or even an en ...  Show more

For years, when I signed copies of Get the Guy, I would write the same message: Never settle.I still believe we should never settle for bad behavior, mistreatment, or a relationship that doesn't make us happy. But over time, I've come to see the idea of "settling" a little differ ...  Show more

How does one know that the relationship they are in is toxic or abusive? I often add the disclaimer to relationship anxiety content to disregard my insight if you're in a toxic or abusive relationship. In this episode, I lay out my nuanced thoughts on this, knowing full well ther ...  Show more

✨ Ever feel like your brain just won’t shut off... even when everything’s actually fine in your relationship? You’re spiraling, checking for signs, running worst-case scenarios, and overanalyzing their every move... but you know deep down, it’s you, not them. 🤯

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Never Be Someone's Maybe: Choose Yourself FirstIn this episode, I dive into the transformative power of fully choosing and loving yourself. I emphasize that once you make a conscious decision to prioritize yourself, everything misaligned will naturally fall away. I share personal ...  Show more

When you hear the word "codependent," you might think of the traditional enabler framework involving a hapless victim and their selfless rescuer. Psychotherapist and boundary expert Terri Cole certainly did. However after years in her therapy practice, she realized that many of h ...  Show more