3 Reasons Why Your Anxious Attachment Isn't Healing

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What "If He Wanted To He Would" Is Actually Doing To Your Relationship

“If he wanted to he would” doesn’t create clarity it creates pressure, testing, and a constant feeling of “am I being chosen enough?” And that’s where the spiral starts. In this episode, we break down: 💭 Why “if he wanted to he would” fuels overthinking and relationship anxiety ...  Show more

Are You Testing Your Partner Without Realizing It?

Have you ever pulled back just to see if they notice? Waited to text… to see if they text first? Stayed quiet about what you wanted… just to see if they remembered? Yeah. That counts as testing. And if you’re doing this (even subtly) it might be the exact reason your relationship ...  Show more

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