thoughts on sex

this week i talk about friendship, outgrowing people, and why sometimes the person you're actually trying to get away from is an old version of yourself. i get into friendships ending without closure, being terrified of rejection, and the fact that our perception of ourselves mig ...  Show more

this week i talk about friendship and why making friends in your 20s feels so fucking complicated. i get into wanting a friend group for basically the first time in my life, the difference between attracting chaotic people and actually choosing to keep them around, and why someon ...  Show more

Last week we unpacked the male gaze - this week, we’re discussing what happens when you like it. Is using your desirability as a power tool empowering… or just patriarchal? We’re talking capitalism, beauty standards, Julia Fox, my internal patriarchy committee, and yes, the one t ...  Show more

I get it.  Guys are HORNY, but when we are sleeping, can you please go pleasure yourself elsewhere?  Today we discuss the wrong place and wrong time for guys to jerk off, mothers who push their insecurities on us, and a member of the team who had some bomb sex in a real-life L ...

<ol><li>Want to know why so many men go to escorts? And why I believe, it' s not the best idea?</li></ol>

Or what erectile dysfunction has to do with porn? 

In another exciting episode I talk about the problems that come with porn addiction, getting used to escort ...

This is the episode where I say out loud what I’ve been living: I don’t even sleep with people anymore, because it never feels genuine. We’re taught as women that being chosen is the ultimate goal but what happens when men don’t even respect the women they choose? From baggy clot ...  Show more