brief thoughts on anarchism lol

this week i come to the recent realization that i have control issues, which is deeply inconvenient because i genuinely thought i was one of the least controlling people. i get into the difference between trying to control other people and trying to control yourself, why fear mak ...  Show more

this week i talk about why saying no has always been so hard for me and what it’s cost me. i get into abstinence, therapy, relationships, and this pattern of changing yourself to fit other people's expectations. I talk about self-betrayal, the shame of staying in things too long, ...  Show more

[video available on spotify] in the last episode, we discussed how sometimes i can be a little bit of a hater. so today i had an idea to retrain my brain - find things that i hate unfairly, and then find something nice to say about them. 

Re-recording a not-so-tragically lost episode (it kinda sucked), Dave and Tamler talk about the things they hate most about philosophy and psychology.  But first they discuss a blog post by a Rochester professor that wonders why it's not OK to rape someone who's passed out.  A ...

I’m back from Italy, and I missed you all desperately!  I let you know about my trip and how my lack of chill was not meshing well with the laid-back attitude of Italy.  A listener calls in to discuss mediocre men and their inability to communicate via text and lets us know th ...

Is anyone else talking to themselves lately? Anyone else randomly blurting out sounds to express their immense grief and frustration while avoiding a complete mental break down? What T.V show are you binging to bridge the gaps between work, organizing for a ceasefire, and bearing ...  Show more