Restoration

We are taught that success comes from persistence, pushing through discomfort, overcoming barriers, and refusing to quit when things get hard. That mindset builds careers, skills and ambitions. But what happens when we apply the same logic to friendships & relationships? 

Home teaches us how to survive, the outside world teaches us how to be us. This episode unpacks why we often become different versions of ourselves depending on where we are. It explores how family dynamics, emotional safety and unspoken rules shape the way we show up at home ver ...  Show more

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Relationship ambivalence (aka, confusion or indecision) is very common for those of us who have an anxious, dismissive avoidant, or fearful avoidant attachment style. In this episode, I help you understand your ambivalence and give you steps to take on how to navigate these compl ...  Show more

What if some of your anxious attachment behaviors are actually rooted in…selfishness? Not because you don’t care—but because fear can make everything feel urgent and all about you.In this episode, I share my own hard truths, the rigid expectations I used to set, and how healing s ...  Show more

In this episode, I talk about how rumination isn’t protecting you as much as you think it is. It’s actually leading you to experience the exact pain and discomfort that you’re trying to avoid by ruminating and overthinking in the first place. If you like my thoughts and insights ...  Show more