the validation trap: why we crave being liked & why its a lie

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a cosy yap session šŸ’Œ

this week’s episode is exactly what it sounds like... a proper catch up. leo fills you in on her two-week work trip (the highs, the lows) & also shares her recent reads and recommendations, while cara shares a slightly chaotic life update… including a recent fainting experience l ...  Show more

spring book recs: current reads & what’s on our tbr šŸ’Œ

another week... another cosy catch up ā¤ļøwe chat about a slightly unhinged recording day (including no sleep, work stress, and last-minute schedule changes), before slipping into a long, rambling bookish conversation. leo shares her experience reading Project Hail Mary, her first ...  Show more

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