The 4 Phases of the Anxious-Avoidant Trap (and How to Break Free)

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#81: What anxiously attached people need to develop more security in relationships

In this episode we explore what anxiously attached people really need in relationships to thrive & develop a more secure attachment pattern over time. Whether you are currently dating or are in a relationship, this episode will help create clarity around what to look for in poten ...  Show more

#80: Can a relationship be too triggering to heal in?

In this episode, I explore a question I get asked often and one that doesn’t have a one-size-fits-all answer. We’ll unpack how to discern whether a relationship is supporting your healing or quietly re-creating the very environment that wounded you in the first place.I talk about ...  Show more

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