The 4 Phases of the Anxious-Avoidant Trap (and How to Break Free)

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#97: "I stopped trying to bring things up because it never leads anywhere!"

If you've stopped bringing things up in your relationship because it never seems to go well, this episode is for you.The tiptoeing. The rehearsing. The deciding it's just not worth the conflict. It feels like the safe option, but silence is actually the thing that will slowly poi ...  Show more

#96: Why you always lose yourself in relationships & how to stop!

In this episode we talk about the most common pattern for women in relationships: Losing ourselves.We do it all the time: The over-giving, the pretending we are fine, the walking on eggshells, the settling for less.We discuss the WHY behind this tendency in women and how to final ...  Show more

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