The 4 Phases of the Anxious-Avoidant Trap (and How to Break Free)

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#95: Over-Functioning - When Doing More Gets Us Less

If you're the one holding everything together in your relationship, you're planning, remembering, doing, this episode is for you.Over-functioning isn't a personality flaw. It's a pattern that made complete sense once upon a time. But in your relationships today, it's quietly crea ...  Show more

#94: "How the f&ck are we supposed to trust men?!"

In this Dear Nath Q&A episode, we open up an honest and nuanced conversation about what it means to be a woman who desires love, intimacy, and partnership with men… while also feeling fear, distrust, and grief.We explore:Why your rage, disgust, and hopelessness are valid response ...  Show more

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