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Is He a Narcissist or Just Avoidant? | Dr. Leslie Dobson & Adam Lane Smith

Most people online will tell you your partner is a narcissist because he didn't text back fast enough. This conversation is nothing like that. Adam Lane Smith sits down with Dr. Leslie Dobson, forensic psychologist and court-appointed expert who has spent her career inside prison ...  Show more

The Science Behind Why Your Nervous System Is Destroying Your Kids (Without Knowing It)

Most parents aren't struggling because they don't care enough. They're struggling because they care too much and their nervous system is running on empty. In this episode, Adam sits down with Hunter Clark-Fields, mindful parenting expert and host of the Mindful Mama Podcast, to t ...  Show more

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