Growing Pains of Becoming Securely Attached

In this episode, we explore how your attachment style was formed and why you experience love the way you do. You’ll learn what emotional attunement is, how early connection shaped your nervous system, and why your patterns in relationships aren’t who you are—they’re adaptations. ...  Afficher plus

In this episode, I sit down with a former coaching client to unpack the all-too-common experience of losing yourself in a relationship, especially when you have an anxious attachment style.We talk about what happens when you prioritize your partner over your own needs, slowly sid ...  Afficher plus

Healing anxious attachment brings so much more security, ease, and confidence into our lives - but let’s be honest: it’s not always easy. It often requires us to sit with discomfort, challenge deeply held beliefs, and face the parts of ourselves we've long avoided.In this episode ...  Afficher plus

Hyper-independence might look like strength, resilience, and self-sufficiency but beneath it often lives exhaustion, loneliness, and the belief that no one else can truly be trusted to show up.In this episode I dive into the truth about hyper-independence: what it really is (a tr ...  Afficher plus

Are You Stuck in Black-and-White Thinking?

Let’s Talk About It.

If you struggle with intense emotions, fear of abandonment, or difficulty navigating relationships, you might also feel trapped in rigid thin ...

In this community Q&A round, I answer some very common burning questions and also controversial topics! "How do I begin to heal from the narc and move on for good and how do I start with healing my childhood to ensure I stay away even though we have a child?" "How to heal and rec ...  Afficher plus