Think It’s Love? 5 Signs It’s Obsession (And ...

What do people who are naturally good at flirting do differently?It’s easy to assume they’re more confident, more attractive, or simply better at knowing what to say. But after nearly 20 years of studying attraction and watching hundreds of first dates, I’ve noticed something els ...  Show more

What if the reason your heartbreak isn’t getting better isn’t because you haven’t tried hard enough to move on, but because there’s a part of it you still haven’t allowed yourself to feel?I recently sat down with David Kessler, one of the world’s leading experts on grief, and som ...  Show more

Why does falling for someone so often feel like a painful obsession? In episode 144 of Overthink, Ellie and David discuss the unspoken difficulties of limerence, or the state of falling in love. What is the difference between love and limerence, and why do we confuse them so freq ...  Show more

If you’ve ever been stuck thinking about someone who doesn’t feel the same way, you know how painful and exhausting it can be. In this episode, we talk about limerence — the intense infatuation that feels like love, but is actually emotional obsession.You’ll learn:What limerence ...  Show more

Hi my loves 💗 Welcome back to another off topic episode where we chat ⬇️

-limerence: an unhealthy obsession over a romantic partner
-anxious attachment style vs secure
-how to STOP the obsession over the person you're dating
-the victim mentality and ...  Show more

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Is an intense infatuation a sign of true love, or is it something else entirely? This episode explores the concept of limerence and its poten ...