They Left? This Reaction Can Shift Everything...

In this episode, we explore one of the biggest questions we face in love: is finding a meaningful relationship about meeting the right person… or about becoming truly ready for one?I talk about why so many of us unknowingly sabotage relationships while searching for perfection, c ...  Show more

Have you ever stared at a text message for 20 minutes trying to decode it and then another 20 minutes trying to figure out how to respond to it? In this week’s episode, I dive into the obsession and overthinking that can happen in dating, when every text, silence, and tiny intera ...  Show more

Toni is joined by her first-ever guest... her fiancé, Taiwo! Together, they dive into your relationship dilemmas. What would you do if your partner's parents didn’t like you? Plus, they discuss how long the talking stage is actually supposed to last.Got a dilemma of your own and ...  Show more

Here's a question for you:

Are you a controlling partner?

If your gut reaction was "FUCK no! I'm not controlling at all!" or "Not a chance, my partner's the controlling one!" or some other fucking enraged denial…

Let ...

It may seem like a hard answer to find, but friend, if you're debating whether or not to put that foot out the door…that's not a good sign.

You gotta learn to trust yourself, and what your emotions are trying to tell you. Why would you want to stay in a relationship whe ...

You know you should move on, you even want to move on, but every time you start making progress, something inside you slams on the brakes. You sabotage your own healing, make excuses to stay stuck, or find reasons why you're "not ready yet." What if the thing keeping you trapped ...  Show more