#205: How to Process a Sudden Break-Up (AKA the "Avoidant Discard")

#205: How to Process a Sudden Break-Up (AKA t...

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#251: How I Approach Nervous System Regulation & Wellbeing

In this episode, I’m sharing how I personally approach nervous system regulation in a way that feels simple, realistic, and actually sustainable, rather than overwhelming myself with endless tools and protocols. We talk about focusing on the foundations — like sleep, nourishment, ...  Show more

#250: Are They Avoidant or Just Not That Into You? (Ask Steph)

Understanding Your Avoidant Partner: New CourseMany people find themselves trying to decode confusing or inconsistent behaviour, wondering whether it reflects avoidant attachment or a lack of interest — but in early dating, a lack of clarity is often the clearest signal in itself ...  Show more

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