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Why Letting Go of Control Feels So Hard (Even When You Trust God)

Do you ever feel like you have to stay on top of everything because you're afraid of what might happen if you don't? Maybe you find yourself managing other people's emotions, planning for every possible outcome, or taking responsibility for things that aren't really yours to carr ...  Show more

3 Steps to Process a Hard Emotion Without Spiraling

Do you struggle to process difficult emotions without overthinking, shutting down, or feeling guilty for having them? As Christian women, we can sometimes feel pressure to handle our emotions perfectly, leaving us afraid to acknowledge what we're really feeling. In today's episod ...  Show more

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