EP 578: 3 Lies You Tell Yourself When You're ...

You cannot be authentically chosen while you’re performing a version of yourself that is designed to prevent rejection.So many of you say that yes, you want to be the main character of your life, but your actions and ways of being are not aligning with truly valuing yourself. Thi ...  Show more

The goal is not to stop wanting love. The goal is to stop losing yourself while you are trying to receive it.Today we are kicking off a brand new series, your secure relationship era, and it’s all about decentering romantic love. (There’s a huge distinction between decentering an ...  Show more

In today’s episode, we’re exploring what avoidant attached people actually need to feel safe and secure in a relationship — and how partners can support that without self-abandoning.

Avoidant attachment is often misunderstood — labelled as cold, distant, or commitment-ph ...

Ever dated an avoidant man or woman? They disappear when conflict starts or a conversation heats up? You feel like you get close to them, but never quite fully there? Maybe you are one yourself and other people feel ‘too needy, too much’, or that being independent and alone is sa ...  Show more

In this episode, we explore the hidden struggles behind avoidant attachment through a candid conversation with someone who’s lived it.We discuss:🔹 Why he resisted change in past relationships — believing emotional distance was a strength🔹 How self-protection became self-disconn ...  Show more