(#9) Elise’s Top Ten: Rethinking infidelity ....

For the 20th anniversary of Design Matters, Debbie Millman revisits conversations with renowned poets Eileen Myles, Elizabeth Alexander, Sarah Kay, and Amber Tamblyn. These excerpts reflect on language, identity, memory, and the lived experience that fuels their work. Together, t ...  Show more

To calm the storm inside your mind, you must first understand it. Singer and actress Rhonda Ross shares her theory of "emotional sovereignty" — the idea that your feelings aren't shaped just by your circumstances, but by the thoughts running on loop in your head. In conversation ...  Show more

Infidelity is the ultimate betrayal. But does it have to be? Relationship therapist Esther Perel examines why people cheat, and unpacks why affairs are so traumatic: because they threaten our emotional security. In infidelity, she sees something unexpected — an expression of long ...  Show more

Ricardo has always been a fixer, and his wife thinks his actions pushed her away. Ultimately, she cheated on him with another woman. Ricardo and his wife are currently separated, and he is desperate to figure out what problem he can remedy in order to put the marriage back togeth ...  Show more

In this deeply emotional episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Rhonda tackle a listener’s heartbreaking dilemma—her best friend’s husband has been unfaithful and now wants to start a family with his mistress, while she struggles with infertility.Joined by Dr. Lara and Memi from ...  Show more

Imagine that your husband has cheated on you with more than five different women (that you’re aware of) and that one of those affairs was while you were pregnant. Time after time you take him back, and then you realize your husband has been unfaithful for almost two decades of ma ...  Show more