The Psychology of Why We Chase People Who Are WRONG for Us | Matt Monday

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How to Get Over Someone You Still Can't Get Over | Rewind

Some people stay with us long after they're gone.Not because they were the right person, but because we remember how they made us feel.In this episode, I answer a question from a listener who can't seem to let go of someone she met two years ago. Their chemistry felt effortless. ...  Show more

How I Got Over My Worst Heartbreak (And You Can Too) | Matt Monday

I still remember the worst heartbreak of my life.I remember thinking I'd never feel okay again. I remember searching for answers. And I remember realizing that knowing what to do isn't the same as actually living through it.Over time, I discovered a handful of things that genuine ...  Show more

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