Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

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The Worst Red Flags I’ve Seen As A Therapist

In this episode, Dr. K tackles a fascinating and highly requested question: Do therapists actually know when their patient is the "villain" of their own story? He explores how toxic individuals and narcissists frequently weaponize therapy language, why some therapists miss person ...  Show more

The Lie of "Positive Thinking"

In this episode, Dr. K tackles the popular self-help myth of "thought control" and positive thinking. Disagreeing with top athletes who claim they can fully master their minds, he explains the actual science of attention, emotional regulation, and cognitive conditioning. Drawing ...  Show more

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