340. The 10 regrets I have about my 20s (so f...

When one person tries to get closer to someone else, and the other person pulls away in response, they might be experiencing a pursuer-distancer dynamic. This can create a very painful cycle, where communication breaks down, each side blames the other, and ultimately, nobody has ...  Show more

If you heard someone described as stoic, you would probably imagine they were unemotional and repressed, with a stiff upper lip. But stoicism has a PR problem. In fact, stoicism can teach us a lot about letting go of outcomes, being more tolerant of others, and how to live a more ...  Show more

Join us as we tackle the chaotic reality of adulting whilst still trying to find out who we truly are.  In this episode, we break down our journey from overthinking every decision we make to finding peace with imperfect progress, the pressure of social comparisons and the anxiety ...  Show more

What’s the biggest shift you wish you’d made sooner? What advice would you give your younger self before 30? In this special reflection, Jay opens up about the lessons he wishes he’d known before turning 30, insights that could have spared him time, energy, and unnecessary stress ...  Show more

Are you dissatisfied with your life? Are you consistently comparing yourself to other people you see online or on social media and thinking your life is really bad. There is something called life dysmorphia, and we are going to go into exactly what that is and whether you could b ...  Show more

Ever get anxious about “simple” adult tasks, like booking appointments, answering calls, or deciding what to cook, because being a grown-up feels way harder than expected? In this episode of But Are You Happy, clinical psychologist Dr. Anastasia Hronis unpacks "adulthood anxiety" ...  Show more