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If you're in no contact with an avoidant and wondering what they're thinking and feeling, this video will give you clarity.Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what happens psychologically when you and your avoidant ex both stop contacting each other.Get coaching!Download Sile ...  Show more

Have you been feeling stuck, confused or unable to move forward after a breakup?In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia asks one powerful question that instantly brings clarity about your real feelings for your ex. Most people are shocked by their own answer!Get coaching! ...  Show more

You’re doing “the talk wrong and I’ll help you fix it.

First, think - an avoidant brain is not a secure brain. You can’t talk to it like it’s an emotionally healthy brain.

We think we have to soft talk an avoidant but they are really looking at you thinking - “ I g ...

"Sorry, can I just say something?", "sorry to bother you!", "oh, sorry!" - sound familiar? If you find yourself saying "sorry" for taking up space, having an opinion, or even when someone else bumps into you, you're not alone. That tiny, five-letter word, meant for genuine remors ...  Show more

Feeling misunderstood is exhausting. When you’re worried about being too much or too hard to read, it’s easy to slip into performing instead of simply being yourself. And during summer, when social situations ramp up, that pressure to change or fit in can feel even heavier.In thi ...  Show more

In today's episode I explain why you struggle to trust yourself and share the simple strategy to rebuild self-trust. I'll help you identify healthy vs unhealthy attachment to your therapist, recognize when you're protecting yourself in therapy, and understand the root causes of i ...  Show more