Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong Men (and How ...

In this podcast episode, I’m sharing a dating shift that tends to feel wildly uncomfortable for high-achieving women at first, and quietly life-changing later. If you’ve ever felt that your love life moves fast, burns bright, and then leaves you exhausted, this is for you. If dat ...  Show more

In this podcast, Dr. Gary reveals the science behind attraction. Learn the “Golden Rule of Attraction,” whether opposites really do attract, should you play hard to get, and how important is personality (or is it really all physical?) Discover how to increase your chances of conn ...  Show more

You know what drives me soooo crazy?

Hearing men and women repeat the same dumb myths about relationships over and over again.

And I don’t blame anyone for believing them.

The fact is that society, romantic movies, and even our friends and family are responsi ...

Do you attract emotionally unavailable people? Or maybe you have a pattern of meeting good people and pushing them away because “something doesn’t feel right.” If this sounds familiar, you may struggle to trust your own decisions when it comes to love. This often leads to us l ...

Why do amazing people—kind, self-aware, emotionally intelligent—keep falling for partners who can’t meet them halfway? In this week’s video, we uncover the five reasons behind this painful cycle and how to finally break free. From the scarcity mindset to the addictive highs an ...

Whether you're dating or have a partner, we can't overlook the most important relationship you'll ever have: the one with YOU. In this episode, you'll learn how to practice self-acceptance and compassion, why I don't believe in "just loving yourself," and how this affects your da ...  Show more