#228: When You Want More Words of Affirmation — But Don’t Want to Ask (Ask Steph)

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#227: The Most Common Forms of Self-Sabotage After a Break-Up

Break-ups are painful — but often, the way we try to cope with that pain can quietly keep us stuck in it for much longer than necessary.In this episode of On Attachment, I walk through five of the most common ways people unknowingly self-sabotage after a break-up, particularly th ...  Show more

#226: “If They Wanted To, They Would” (Ask Steph)

In this Ask Steph episode, I share my perspective on the phrase “if they wanted to, they would” — and why it’s sometimes helpful, but often oversimplified.I talk about the difference between basic effort and genuine capacity, and why assuming someone’s behaviour always reflects a ...  Show more

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