What Secure Love Actually Feels Like

What Secure Love Actually Feels Like

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The Real Reason Why You Think You Need Constant Reassurance

In this week's episode, I'm unpacking why reassurance never seems to stick and why asking for more isn't actually the thing that's going to make you feel safe. One of the biggest mindset shifts I ever had was realizing I wasn't really asking: "Do you love me?" I was asking: "Am I ...  Show more

What To Do When Your Anxious Attachment is Pushing a Good Person Away

If you've ever felt like you're pushing a good person away because of your anxiety, or if you're caught in the same argument cycle every few weeks, this episode is a must-listen for you. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or even married and finding those anxious triggers ...  Show more

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