The Manosphere Got Stoicism Backwards

Most advice for overthinking points you at the thoughts themselves. Journal them. Replace the negative ones with positive ones. Breathe. Meditate. Run. But what if the thoughts were never the problem?Epictetus taught that it is not events that disturb us, but our judgements about ...  Show more

For most of my adult life I had a low-level hypervigilance running in the background. I tried to fight it with books, breathwork, control techniques, willpower. The harder I fought, the worse it got.In this episode I share the breakthrough that came when I stopped fighting and st ...  Show more

Welcome to Episode 460 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Lianna Walden, who speaks to me about how men and couples can deepen intimacy and connection through embodiment, sexual energy work, and practical worship rituals.In this conversation, Lianna and I ...  Show more

Are you stuck in hyper-masculine mode, constantly doing, controlling, and striving-yet feeling disconnected from your feminine flow? In this episode of You First: A Journey to Self , we dive deep into balancing masculine and feminine energy to create a life of alignment, ease, an ...  Show more

Welcome to Episode 464 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Riana Milne, who speaks to me about emotional disconnection, communication breakdowns, and their impact on sexual desire in relationships.

As a single man, you likely battle fear from time to time—and not just on the dating scene.

Maybe you’re afraid to be emotionally vulnerable with people because you’ve been told it’s a sign of weakness.

Perhaps you get angry—at women, the world, yourself—and ...  Show more