#266: How to Move from Understanding Your Patterns to Actually Changing Them (Ask Steph)

#266: How to Move from Understanding Your Pat...

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#265: Fearful Avoidant Attachment: A Deep Dive (Part 3)

This week's episode is the much-requested Part 3 of my deep dive on fearful avoidant attachment — and today, we're talking about what it takes to heal. We cover shame, self-compassion, accountability, self-sabotage, nervous system regulation, and more.And while far from being exh ...  Show more

#264: The One Thing You Should Never Do in Relationships (from Substack)

Subscribe to my Substack, Notes to SelfI've recently launched on Substack, and today's episode is a read-out of a recent article I wrote there titled The One Thing You Should Never Do in Relationships. If you enjoy this episode, I'd be so grateful if you could head on over to Sub ...  Show more

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