Episode 512: Why Chastity Turns People On

Why do some people need emotional connection to feel desire, while others are more responsive to novelty, touch, or fantasy? And why can the exact same sexual experience feel exciting one day and flat the next? In this episode, we explore the five dimensions of desire and how und ...  Show more

A lot of people think that if you’re attracted to someone, arousal should just naturally happen. But it’s not that simple. In this episode, we explore the science of sexual arousal, the many pathways through which desire can emerge, and how stress, trauma, burnout, and major life ...  Show more

Do you carefully choose your sex toy? If not, you really should. In this episode, Isabelle, the founder of Désirable (a woman-owned and woman-designed sex toy company) talks to us about good and bad sex toys, and her inspiration in creating beautiful dildos. Since there are so ma ...  Show more

On today's show we welcome Annabelle Knight. Annabelle is a dating, sex and relationship expert along with being a certified couple's councilor. She's also written a novel, The Endless Autumn, which has been featured by Cosmopolitan. Annabelle has her own range of sex toys availa ...  Show more

Black folks are often left out of research studies. Queer people are often left out of research studies. Women are often left out of research studies. So if you're a Black queer woman, there's hardly any research about your specific needs, struggles, and pleasure -- and that's wh ...  Show more

You all loved Season 12 so much, we're running it back -- and bringing you EVEN MORE PLEASURE! This season we're covering everything you want to know about pleasure, orgasms, sex cults, BDSM, and so much more. I'm talking to some of the top experts in the field, and answering you ...  Show more