237: Change Can Be (EXTREMELY) Strange

What if making major life decisions didn't have to be so agonizing? Many people assume that the bigger the decision, the more time, uncertainty, and emotional turmoil it should involve. But what if you could make major life decisions thoughtfully without turning them into an exha ...  Show more

What exactly is an emotional affair, and how do you know if you're having one? Despite how often the term gets used, there is surprisingly little agreement about what an emotional affair actually is. Many people find themselves wondering whether a close connection with someone el ...  Show more

Are you tired of trying to make things work with your partner, or feel they are not as invested as you are?

Do you feel like you've grown apart in your relationship or feel more like roommates?

Or do you wish you had black-and-white ...

In this episode, John talks about the challenges people face when they stay in a relationship after infidelity. He encourages people who are in this situation to ask themselves a very important question: why are you staying in this relationship? Especially when there hasn't been ...  Show more

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: should I leave my marriage? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and ...  Show more

A question that I often get is "I can't decide, should I stay in my relationship or should I go?" This will help you figure out what's best.

"Every time we feel pain in a relationship it tells us that something needs out attention." - Terri Cole.

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