239: After the Affair: When Infidelity Become...

What if an infidelity situation didn't have to mean the end of your life as you know it? In this episode, I'm talking with Jane, a woman in her late 60s who found herself having an affair after more than 40 years of marriage. She never imagined herself as someone who would have a ...  Show more

Most stories about infidelity end with heartbreak, regret, or destruction. But what if that isn't the whole story? In this episode, I'm joined by Scarlett, a longtime listener who generously shares the story of her affair, the end of her marriage, the painful aftermath of losing ...  Show more

Are you tired of trying to make things work with your partner, or feel they are not as invested as you are?

Do you feel like you've grown apart in your relationship or feel more like roommates?

Or do you wish you had black-and-white ...

In this episode, John talks about the challenges people face when they stay in a relationship after infidelity. He encourages people who are in this situation to ask themselves a very important question: why are you staying in this relationship? Especially when there hasn't been ...  Show more

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: should I leave my marriage? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and ...  Show more

A question that I often get is "I can't decide, should I stay in my relationship or should I go?" This will help you figure out what's best.

"Every time we feel pain in a relationship it tells us that something needs out attention." - Terri Cole.

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