4:4 The Perfectionist, Controller & People Pleaser: Your Manager Parts Explained

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4:5 Tormentor or Mentor? An IFS Reframe on Parenting's Tough Moments

In this episode, Susan unpacks Richard Schwartz's term "tor-mentor" — the idea that our children, in the moments they frustrate us most, are also mentoring us toward healing. Ordinary friction, like being ignored, can trigger reactions far bigger than the moment calls for, often ...  Show more

4:3 Calming Rage With IFS: Helping Protective Parts Relax

Susan continues her Parenting Without Power Struggles series on Internal Family Systems, exploring how "firefighter" parts trigger intense reactivity, rage, and regrettable parenting moments. She explains that parents often fixate on what went wrong and overlook what went well — ...  Show more

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