4:7 After the Anger: An IFS Look at Repair

4:7 After the Anger: An IFS Look at Repair

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4:8  ​Being Present with Disappointment: an IFS Perspective

In this episode, Susan explores what happens when our children are disappointed, upset, or frustrated — and why our instinct to fix, minimize, or rescue them from that feeling often does more harm than good. Using the example of a child upset about a not getting to wear a favorit ...  Show more

4:6 An IFS Look at Power Struggles: Captain, Lawyer, or Dictator?

In this episode, Susan connects Internal Family Systems to three modes she's taught for years: Captain, Lawyer, and Dictator. Using a real dinnertime example, she shows how a child's simple request can pull a parent from calm boundary-setting into defending themselves, and eventu ...  Show more

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