244: The C-Word

If you're spending hours texting your affair partner every day, but you know it's making your life harder, why are you still doing it? It's completely reasonable to enjoy texting with your affair partner. It can be exciting, entertaining, and a reliable source of pleasure. But if ...  Show more

What if the people in your life are a lot more interesting than you've been giving them credit for? I'm doing something a little different this week: I'm giving you a quiz about me, with some very fun prizes for the people who get the answers right. But this isn't just an excuse ...  Show more

Are you tired of trying to make things work with your partner, or feel they are not as invested as you are?

Do you feel like you've grown apart in your relationship or feel more like roommates?

Or do you wish you had black-and-white ...

In this episode, John talks about the challenges people face when they stay in a relationship after infidelity. He encourages people who are in this situation to ask themselves a very important question: why are you staying in this relationship? Especially when there hasn't been ...  Show more

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: should I leave my marriage? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and ...  Show more

A question that I often get is "I can't decide, should I stay in my relationship or should I go?" This will help you figure out what's best.

"Every time we feel pain in a relationship it tells us that something needs out attention." - Terri Cole.

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