When you feel like you have to defend yourself (a shadow work + inner child healing practice)

When you feel like you have to defend yoursel...

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5 signs you're losing yourself in a relationship

Do you feel like you're always the one doing everything in your relationship, yet somehow still end up feeling unappreciated?In this throwback episode of Codependency Alchemy, I'm revisiting five warning signs of a codependent relationship that can be easy to overlook, especially ...  Show more

On unmet needs, changing friendships, and knowing when you're abandoning yourself

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit alyssaaazander.substack.comHow do you know when you're making a healthy compromise versus abandoning yourself? What happens when you're doing the inner work, but your partner isn't? And why can something as simple as h ...  Show more

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