EP 698: When Being Chosen Becomes Your Whole Identity (Your Secure Relationship Era Pt. 1)

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EP 697: Healthy Love Isn’t Boring, It Just Doesn’t Hurt (Why Love Feels So Hard Right Now Pt. 4)

What if secure love is not the absence of passion, but the absence of pain pretending to be passion?Maybe you have spent years believing that love is pain, heartbreak, unpredictability, chasing, proving. Then you find yourself in a connection that is predictable, reliable, consis ...  Show more

EP 696: Situationship Hell: Why Is Dating So Hard Right Now Pt. 3

Sometimes the hardest relationship to get over is the one that was never actually a relationship.You weren’t officially together, you never had the DTR, but you talked with this person constantly. You were getting just enough closeness to keep you hopeful, but never enough reassu ...  Show more

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