1891 || spirit of the goal vs. the reward

Sometimes our emotional world's and subjective experiences are what make us MORE reliable, not less.The focus on getting a high score actually distorts what we're scoring. The problem is not measurement, but a fixation on it"When a measure becomes a target, it ceases to be a good ...  Afficher plus

The focus on getting a high score actually distorts what we're scoring. The problem is not measurement, but a fixation on it"When a measure becomes a target, it ceases to be a good measure." - Goodhart’s LawThe sources:Jerry Z. Muller's The Tyranny of Metrics. Grading is ineffect ...  Afficher plus

Love is hard. In order to truly love someone else, you need to learn to love yourself first.

"Love is light. Love is adventure. Love is the absence of judgement."

Speakers:

Robin Williams

Alan Watts: alanwatts.org

Eric Thomas

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Have you ever been hurt badly by someone in love? Those wounds can stay with us a long time.

They can stop us from taking chances again in love.

They can make us afraid of getting close to someone again…

Afraid of being vulnerable again…

Afraid of l ...