246: Yes, You Really Can Find Love Again

What if telling the truth could make your life easier, even if you aren't sure you're going to like what happens next? In this episode, I talk about why telling the truth can sometimes be extremely beneficial, even though I also believe that you have the prerogative to lie, omit ...  Show more

What is the C-word? In my work, there's one C-word that carries a lot of weight: closure. In this episode, I talk about what closure actually means, why we can end up making our sense of peace dependent on things we cannot control, and how our own thinking shapes whether or not w ...  Show more

Are you tired of trying to make things work with your partner, or feel they are not as invested as you are?

Do you feel like you've grown apart in your relationship or feel more like roommates?

Or do you wish you had black-and-white ...

In this episode, John talks about the challenges people face when they stay in a relationship after infidelity. He encourages people who are in this situation to ask themselves a very important question: why are you staying in this relationship? Especially when there hasn't been ...  Show more

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: should I leave my marriage? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and ...  Show more