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Every time you disagree, it turns into a fight. Or you've gotten so afraid of the fight that you stop saying what you need at all. Either way, old hurts show up, you talk over each other, and you end up feeling more distant than when you started. Most couples don't have an arguin ...  Show more

You bring something up and hear "I'm fine." So you stop asking. Or you're the one who goes quiet and hopes it blows over, then wonder why the tension never leaves the house. Either way, it starts to feel like you're walking on eggshells and nothing ever actually gets resolved. In ...  Show more

Take the Emotional Safety Assessment QuizIn this episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin are joined by therapist Leanne Rogers to unpack the transformative concept of differentiation—the ability to honor your own identity while staying deeply con ...  Show more

Individuals can get so caught up in life that they take their relationships for granted. Instead of appreciating all of the ways that their partner enriches their life, they only notice moments of discomfort and disruption. If couples aren't careful they can get stuck in patterns ...  Show more

When couples first come together, the thrill of meeting someone new combined with attraction creates a honeymoon period. By the time they exit the initial charge of getting together, they have often made unconscious systems of conflict resolution that are not sustainable in the l ...  Show more