212: Avoiding Newlywed and Long Term Relation...

Emotional availability isn’t about feeling emotions loudly or perfectly — it’s about presence, regulation, and the ability to hold space without shutting down or exploding. Our capacity shifts based on stress, attachment history, neurodivergence, and what’s happening in our windo ...  Show more

Why does it feel so disappointing to ask for what you want? In this episode, we unpack the hidden belief that “if I have to ask, it doesn’t count” — and how that mindset turns simple needs (compliments, celebration, affection) into silent resentment. We explore the shame, fear of ...  Show more

Relationships and marriages aren’t just hard–they’re harder than ever because the expectations around them have changed so much. What worked in the past isn’t working anymore, so it’s time for a new approach. We need to figure out what works for u ...

Matthew Hussey is NYT best-selling author, speaker, and coach specializing in confidence, dating, and relationship intelligence. His new book, Love Life, teaches readers how to raise your standards, find your person and live happily, and he’s been researching the topic of rela ...

In today's episode, I'm delighted to be joined by Julie Menanno. Julie is a couples therapist, best known for her hugely popular instagram account @thesecurerelationship where she offers nuanced and ...

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If you've ever come across standard "self-love" advice and it hasn't really landed for you, you're not alone. As great as it wo ...