Why You Don't Get What You Want

Why does discipline feel so hard for you, while others seem to do it effortlessly? In this episode, I break down the two phases of discipline, explain why your brain resists change, and show you how to push through the identity lag so consistency becomes part of who you are. I’ll ...  Show more

Have you ever known exactly what you wanted to say, but still chose to abandon yourself instead? In this episode, I break down why you people-please, how childhood conditioning wires your brain for emotional safety, and what it takes to rewire it so you can finally choose yoursel ...  Show more

Knowing Your Why AND Why Not Getting what you want in life will be two things… It will be easier than you can imagine or harder than you ever thought possible. The journey will be exciting and scary. Looking back, you will be glad you did it, yet wonder if you will ever do it aga ...  Show more

Understanding what you want is key to creating a life you won’t regret when you die. So why do so many women struggle to pinpoint exactly what that is? If you can relate, in this Greatest Hits episode, I break exactly down what it means to want something (and why women especially ...  Show more

When you know what you want, like, really know, it's easy to stay consistent. Most people don't achieve their goals, not because they aren't trying, but rather because they don't have a clear idea of what they really, really want in life. Sometimes in order to know what you do wa ...  Show more

In this episode we bring on polymath Luke Burgis to discuss the fundamental question of DESIRE - why do you want the things you want in life?See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.