70. Clean v Dirty Pain (Breakups, Death, etc)

You can’t just think a new thought and expect your brain to believe it. If you’ve ever tried telling yourself you’re worthy, confident, or beautiful, only to have your brain immediately argue with you, you know what I’m talking about. In this Classics episode, I’m revisiting one ...  Show more

Your maid of honor didn't come to your wedding, and you're still hurt about it. How do you move on when someone you care about misses an event that was supposed to be so important? In this Coaching Hotline episode, I answer a listener's question about lingering hurt and why we ca ...  Show more

Pain and suffering aren't the same. You can ease suffering by gently peeling back layers of worry, regret, complaint, and unhelpful story-telling to get to the pain inside.Read the transcript.Check out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows.Subscribe to the newsletter for regular upd ...  Show more

Have you ever noticed how some emotional pain seems to help you grow, while other types just keep you stuck in a cycle of suffering?

I've been fascinated by this distinction for years, and after mentioning it briefly at a recent ...

On todays episode, I dive into emotion and how we can deal with the pain of our past. I break down emotion, talk about the process in which emotion is brought about, and provide you with TOOLS that will help you sort them out. 

—My Anxiety Recovery Program—