70. Clean v Dirty Pain (Breakups, Death, etc)

What truth are you refusing to admit because you’re afraid of what it will mean? Maybe you know you want a different role at work, you’re questioning whether something in your relationship is working, or you keep saying yes to things you secretly do not want to do. In this episod ...  Show more

Have you ever tried to convince yourself you shouldn’t be upset, while still feeling completely resentful underneath? This week, I answer a Coaching Hotline question from a listener who feels frustrated that people attend her events less often than she attends theirs. I explore w ...  Show more

Pain and suffering aren't the same. You can ease suffering by gently peeling back layers of worry, regret, complaint, and unhelpful story-telling to get to the pain inside.Read the transcript.Check out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows.Subscribe to the newsletter for regular upd ...  Show more

Have you ever noticed how some emotional pain seems to help you grow, while other types just keep you stuck in a cycle of suffering?

I've been fascinated by this distinction for years, and after mentioning it briefly at a recent ...

On todays episode, I dive into emotion and how we can deal with the pain of our past. I break down emotion, talk about the process in which emotion is brought about, and provide you with TOOLS that will help you sort them out. 

—My Anxiety Recovery Program—

Some pains from our past are more readily released, while others tend to linger. It's not always a simple task to train our minds to be positive or to avoid dwelling on unexpected hurts. In this podcast, discover a way to acknowledge and embrace all our feelings without lettin ...